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Why should you plan a destination wedding in Pune
Friday 24 March 2023 /
Why should you plan a destination wedding in Pune
Pune is an ideal location for a destination wedding thanks to its rich history of royal weddings held in the city's many historic forts. You can explore many of Pune's undiscovered treasures before, during, or after the destination wedding ceremonies that you are attending there. Couples are drawn to this city's many new cafes and exciting sites, in addition to its historic buildings and massive fortifications, both of which contribute to the city's overall attractiveness. As a result, you could say that Pune is an amalgamation of contemporary culture and the rich, traditional culture of the Marathas. We will be of assistance to you in order to provide you with more clarification regarding planning your destination wedding in Pune. All you gotta do is keep reading:)
Grab the blessings of deities for a new start
There are various places of worship that you can go to with your significant other and other members of your family in order to seek the blessings of the gods. You will require a roomy location in order to accommodate all of your guests during the wedding festivities in order to make your destination wedding in Pune a success. You can find the best resorts in Pune for at prices that are kind to one’s wallet . Your destination wedding in Pune will be much more enjoyable if you take advantage of the exceptional services that are offered in regard to the hospitality of your guests.
Historical treasures of Pune
The city of Pune exemplifies the diverse cultural traditions of India, which is one of the reasons why it is considered the cultural capital of the state of Maharashtra. You will have the opportunity to learn fascinating information in a diverse selection of settings. Some of the places in Pune that absolutely cannot be missed include the Shaniwar Wada, Sinhagad Fort, Laal Mahal, Shivneri Fort, and Aga Khan Palace.
Nature embraces you here with open arms
Many engaged couples have the dream of tying the knot in a setting that is surrounded by the beautiful beauty of nature, which includes all aspects of the natural world such as mountain ranges, lakes, and rivers, etc. When it comes to locations for destination weddings, Pune is at the top of the list because it has everything you could want and more. Some of the most enticing spots for people who appreciate environment include the Parvati Hills, Vetal hill, Taljai Hills, Bund Garden, Okayama Friendship garden, and the Rajgad walk.
Entertainment Zones for the party people
The traditional wedding ceremony in India is regarded for being a time of joyous and extensive celebration. That way, you and your loved ones will have the opportunity to enjoy the fresh air and visit a variety of locations that offer an abundance of exciting and entertaining activities. In Pune, some of the clubs with the most exciting nightlife are the Mi-a-Mi club, Oak lounge, Coco-Sushi bar, Euriska, and Penthouze.
The couple can still have a wonderful wedding even though it will take place far away from their home if they use wedding packages and competent coordinators. When you are organising a wedding at a remote location, you will likely need to make certain concessions, such as reducing the size of the ceremony and the number of guests you invite. However, the allure and advantages of having a wedding in a faraway location are such that the extra effort is more than justified. Destination weddings provide us with the opportunity to make our love stories even more remarkable than they already are, which is something that we all hope to achieve when we get married.
5 Lehenga designs for that Intimate weddings
Tuesday 29 September 2020 / lehenga, sari, wedding
Have that small wedding function and don't want too dressy over the top lehenga styles ? Especially when the wedding gatherings have become small and intimate . Sharing a few options for you to still look the best while staying in line with that trend factor . A few trends can still be incorporated and are classy and elegant and make for the perfect hands me down garments.
1. Florals - Florals has been a dominating trend from 2019 and we still can't get enough of it . They are so versatile and so light weight and can easily UP that drama just by adding a sequin blouse or a crop top with a matching dupatta . Best part - You can remix your floral lehengas for a more subtle party look by just switching the accessories and blouse . I say bring out your collared white shirts for an alternate pairing and be always on top of your style game.
2. Sequin Power - One trend that we see in almost all the fancy wedding gears is that of the sequin . It lends the much needed bling to even the simplest of garments . Then be it a sequin patch or the whole fabric turned into a sequin masterpiece , its one element that adds the much needed ZING FACTOR .
For a simple day wedding you can choose a light sequin detailing over a bold colour ( Black, Browns or Red ) with rest of the sequin detailing going all over the sleeves and dupatta . Not only its light weight obviously ( for you to easily tune and tap dancing ) it is also easy to accessorise with bold Kundan jewellery and heavy makeup .
3. Red and Gold - The Traditional
Talking about lehengas and we don't mention one of the most sought after combo - Its impossible .
Red and gold combination is everyone's favourite . If you are a bride or maybe not, when it comes to an ideal colour combination , this combination has been acing the wedding scenes since decades . Just add on a bit of festive shimmer by pairing it either with a gold sequin blouse or a matching red sequin blouse, ( both look great if you ask me ) and there you have it - the choicest pick for every bride and bridesmaid . You can pair it with any type of jewellery ,but I would prefer polki or gold . This colour combo will forever remain alluring and special to me because its a symbol/onset of that celebratory feeling .
5. The Long than Short of it.
This style ( picture below ) is for all those ladies who are a little too shy to show off the midriff as found in shorter choli styles . This longer choli combo is a saviour for those women and looks equally splendid too. The flared style lehenga and long jacket style choli is functional, yet beautiful and looks quite youthful TBH . Also Delhi peeps, those harsh outdoor winter weddings will soon have all the brides and bridesmaid thanking their stylist when they go in for a lehenga option something like this . What say ?
So what kind of a Lehenga Lover are you ? Are you a team Red or a team gold or both of them ? Sound me off in the comments .
Narcissist Personality Disorder - Are you a victim ? Find out
Sunday 31 May 2020 /
Now here I was suffering with a real mental condition. So am I crazy ? I asked my therapist. To which she answered , " No you are not but you are led to believe that you are " and this gaslighting can eventually make you crazy, even if you choose not to . Being forced to question your own reality is abuse and the one I was specifically dealing with is Narc Abuse.
A Narc is a J-E-R-K. You can't diagnose a person for being a jerk and there is no medication avaiable for being one. But the good thing is a lot of people ( like myself) are now contemplating and analyzing this kind of extreme behavior and trying to find where in their life its showing up. I did my own research and you must look out for Dr Ramani's videos on you tube. They help a lot .
Stonewalling me was a typical toxic dynamic used by the Narcissist. It is one of the most dangerous trait in a Narcissistic handbook and honestly it did the most mental damage to me. A bunch of issues never got resolved or addressed with this person and silent treatment was used on me the minute I wanted to create an environment to keep a conversation going. The silence to questions like "what should we do about the car "or "bills "Or "how do you plan to repay a loan, were never looked as matters to resolve" instead were matters of potential conflicts in their larger plan to entitlement. I was getting walled up. It was like a choking feeling for me. Not able to figure what I am going through or what is this constant feeling of mental paralysis or running dead against a wall , I seeked advise from my therapist. During my phone conversation with her she used a term "Stonewalling" I immediately got excited . Yeah that's how I feel, i exclaimed. There is a wall of stone and I am just banging my head on it continuously magically expecting a "Khul Ja Sim sim " moment.
Learning this new word used in Narc vocabulary ,my relatability got a new direction. Everything was clear now. Plastic cut outs of one liners used by this Narcissist like "OK", " I will let you know later and " I will think about it " it all made sense . I was STONEWALLED ... or STONE-WOW-LED.
She asked me to watch a video explained by Dr Ramani on stonewalling and the revelation was shocking . Dr. ramani says - The idea of growing a relationship from a point of vulnerabilty to trust is never on a radar for such people . Narcissist wants censoring a possible solution which in the first place can be easily arrived by having a converstaion . These simple tools for sorting out issues or deep stuff are so complicated for a Narcissist hence putting work in a relationship is never the way these Morons think . Plus they get a high knowing now they control you, which is the same as getting high from drugs. This is how they dose and this was what was exactly happening with me . The abuser was dosing with control and I was tripping in trauma. It is like vodoo. I couldn't put a finger on it, didn't know how to get out of it and my sanity was questionable.
And what was even more funny was I was taking responsibility of this toxic pattern even though it was being done to me. I was called too pushy, hasty and insensitive in the process and trust me at one point I believed I was all these things. So much for my self worth all going in the bin.
This makes me draw up 2 things to clear this self blaming smoke and if you find yourself in the same position, learn from my experience.
a) The questions I asked this Jerk were uncomortable to answer because the answers would reveal the malicious plan they had in mind.( remeber they are manipulative) read point 1 again.
b) I was already close on catching up on the Bull shit of this person I cared for and I was being punished for finding out.
puzzle solved.
This passive aggressive behaviour was Abuse of a higher level to not only hurt me but it felt like some
" Back Door " insult where this person wasn't screaming or angry but was acting ridiculously petty and emotionally stunting. I became certain of one thing- that this relationship was coming to a DOWNFALL and it was made to look like it was my fault .
Now take this feeling and put yourself in my shoe and experience that feeling. How do you feel now ? Shitty ? Welcome to my world of emotional hell .
"They love what you could do for them more than they Love you."
You can't move anywhere in this relationship . You can't move out of it and you can't communicate about it. I was desperately trying to hold it together and since my loving folks had no understanding of a Narc behavior, they were helplessly looking at me going crazy. And in a weird way it felt like I was . Any sane person would go crazy. The relationship was slowly breaking me apart. Its a difficult and horrible experience to go through and I don't wish it on anyone.
Stories told by this Narcissist in my life were told with such conviction, and despite being aware of the invalidation done to me, these flying monkeys kept saying things like “ oh come on let it be like that”, “if that is what he/she wants let them do it that way”, the Narcissist fan club not only remained supportive of the Narcissist but also felt sorry for this shady abuser. So twisted.
Whereas On the flip side I was once threatened that if I didn't abide by the shots the Narcisisst wanted to take and not only that, if I didn't help the Narcissist in their schemes which I clearly knew originated from manipulation (remember postponing, excuses, lies that is how they deal with issues )my abuser would then have full rights to delay/withhold pending urgent issues.
I felt more silenced and more invalidated. It was like I should become an obedient foot soldier who should be executing plans unquestioningly. Its not healthy to have your feelings and fears minimised and statements like these were designed to pull out maximum guilt from me.
And in Siding with the Narc, they were not only condoning the abuse towards me , they were miserably failing to take a stand by lacking morality.You need to be a sadist to stand with the Narcissist sadist thoughts and actions which made me believe that these flying monkeys always had a unresolved vendetta against me and this shadowboxing was giving some sort of thrill to them. While I was guilt shamed into agreeing to most of the things, in order to maintain peace my therapist calls it a legit TRAUMA RESPONSE to abuse. And by doing that I not only disrespected my boundaries rather made myself a whole lot uncomfortable. There was a joint effort to take me down and infact I felt everyone was there to just pick the meat off my bones in the name of assistance and I was getting pulled into their drama more and more.I felt as if I could never get out of this RUT. Abandoning the Narc for my peace of mind only meant more pain through guilt and shame schemed in words, blackmailed through emotions, by these flying monkeys that at one point I thought they were more menacing than the Narc itself and impacted my condition even more. IS IT WORTH IT ? Sadly NO.
Today on 1st June- World Narcissist Abuse Awareness day , I dedicate this post to all the surviors stuck in a relationship with a Narc. Its about knowledge , sharing, Identifying the signals and do some soul healing . You can heal from broken bones but its the broken souls that need forever to heal. Don't be in a one sided relationship, identify these signals and muster up the courage to walk out of abuse. Its not about being selfish , its saving your life and that should be the only thing that MATTERS .
Using Peels to Revitalize Your Skin
Tuesday 18 February 2020 /
What Your Peel Procedure Options Are